A victim of coercive and controlling behaviour has described the significant and lasting impact this experience has had on her life, after her ex-partner was jailed for more than two years.
Daniel Levy, 40, subjected the victim to ongoing abuse in different forms, including questioning where she was and who she was with, calling her names, attempting to control her finances, being verbally aggressive and displaying violent behaviour.
She found the courage to end the relationship and reported it to Bedfordshire Police.
"This experience has had a significant and lasting impact on my life."
"Loud noises or shouting can overwhelm me, and I often feel the need to leave the room immediately. Certain triggers - like seeing a van similar to his or hearing a voice that sounds like his - can send me into a state of panic. I find myself checking outside, fearing he might be nearby, even though I know logically he isn't."
"I feel weak, even though I know I've survived something incredibly difficult. I walk around on eggshells, and even though he's in prison, I still feel trapped by the fear and trauma he caused. I want to move forward. I want to enjoy my life again. But right now, it's hard."
Levy of Chasten Hill, Letchworth Garden City, was found guilty of coercive and controlling behaviour and was sentenced at Luton Crown Court yesterday (Thursday) to two years and eight months in prison. He was also handed a 10-year restraining order.
Police Statement
Investigation Officer Dips Wheeler from Bedfordshire Police said: "Coercive and controlling behaviour isn't always obvious. Victims may not recognise it as domestic abuse, and signs are often hidden from those outside the relationship.
"Levy's actions had a profound impact on the victim's daily life, leaving her struggling to sleep and experiencing nightmares and flashbacks.
"I am pleased he has received a custodial sentence, and I want to commend the victim for her courage in coming forward and reporting his behaviour. Her strength has ensured he is now being held accountable.
"If you are concerned about someone, or feel you are in a controlling relationship, support is available."
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Source: Bedfordshire Police